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有的孩子在得不到自己想要的东西的时候，会通过哭、扔东西或者故意敲打来引起父母的注意。 在这种情况下，建议父母先不要生气，应该停下手中的事情，陪孩子整理整理东西，和他们聊聊天儿，弄清楚他们的问题。 父母的关心，可以让孩子心情愉快起来。 教育孩子应该选择合适的教育方法，最好不要为了解决问题而骗孩子，这是因为儿童缺少判断能力，看到父母骗人，他们也会学着说假话。

Yǒu de háizǐ zài dé bú dào zìjǐ xiǎng yào de dōngxī de shíhòu, huì tōngguò kū, rēng dōngxī huòzhě gùyì qiāodǎ lái yǐnqǐ fùmǔ de zhùyì. Zài zhè zhǒng qíngkuàng xià, jiànyì fùmǔ xiān bú yào shēngqì, yīnggāi tíngxià shǒuzhōng de shìqíng, péi háizi zhěnglǐ zhěnglǐ dōngxi, hé tāmen liáo liáo tiānr, nòng qīngchu tāmen de wèntí. Fùmǔ de guānxīn, kěyǐ ràng háizi xīnqíng yúkuài qǐlái. Jiàoyù háizi yīnggāi xuǎnzé héshì de jiàoyù fāngfǎ, zuìhǎo bùyào wèile jiějué wèntí ér piàn háizi, zhè shì yīnwèi értóng quēshǎo pànduàn nénglì, kàndào fùmǔ piànrén, tāmen yě huì xuézhe shuō jiǎhuà.

Some children, when they can't get what they want, will cry, throw things, or deliberately bang on things to get their parents' attention. In this situation, parents are advised to not get angry at first, they should stop what they’re doing, help the child tidy things up a bit, chat with them, and figure out their problems. Parents' care can make children feel happy. When educating children, one should choose appropriate educational methods; it is best not to lie to children just to solve problems. This is because children lack judgment; when they see their parents lying, they will also learn to tell lies.